Describe Jims Self-concept: I feel Jims has low self-esteem, his perception of himself is an average student (Wood, 2014). With this outlook Jim probably feels that he canâ€™t get or do any better.
Explain how both Jimâ€™s self-concept and his fatherâ€™s self-concept is impacting the interaction in either a positive or negative way using examples from the video.
I feel it is in a negative way because Jim doesnâ€™t feel like he can do any better and his father isnâ€™t helping him by saying I paid my way through college and you are getting a free ride (Wood,2014). So they are having a hard time communicating because they both have a different perspective on the situation.
Explains all three components of the process of human perception to explain the situation between Jim and his father.
Selection is the first process, what we select to notice is also influenced by who we are and what is going on within us ...view middle of the document...
The third one is interpretation which is an explanation of why something happened or why someone acts a certain way (Wood, 2014).
Jimâ€™s father is assuming why Jimâ€™s grades are poor, he thinks he is partying too much and not focusing on his schoolwork. And Jim is saying that he is studying, it is just too hard for him and he isnâ€™t like his father who cruised through school (Wood, 2014).
Offers two tips for Jim and two tips for his father using the guidelines for improving perception and communication (starting on page 79) and explains how these tips could be applied in an effective way.
I would suggest to Jimâ€™s father not to be a mind reader, he thinks that Jim is partying and hanging out with his friends. He should be asking why his grades are not up to his standards and help with making a solution instead of an assumption.
Jimâ€™s father also has to understand that Jim is his own self and that just because he was good in school doesnâ€™t mean Jim is going to be. He should also try to praise his son for the grades that he is getting and for trying to do the best he can instead of being self -biased. If him and his son could communicate better and understand where each other is coming from they might be able to resolve this situation.
I would suggest to Jim that he explain to his father that he is applying himself and he is doing the best he can. And ask his father if there is any advice that his father can give to him to help with getting his grades up. And also remind Jim that his father is putting him through school and he expects the best from him, and how would he react in this situation. I think that would give him a little more confidence in bringing his grades up, if he had the support from his family.
What I have learned from this assignment is that is very easy to put your own perspective on any situation. Until you put yourself in someoneâ€™s position you wonâ€™t understand where they are coming from. Not that you have to agree you just need to understand why, and that gives you a better perspective of someoneâ€™s life.
Wood, J. (2014). Interpersonal Communication: Everyday Encounters (7th ed). Cengage Learning. Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Retrieved from Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â http://online.vitalsource.com/books