PYC4808 ASSIGNMENT 03 STUDENT NUMBER: 3409-367-2 UNIQUE NUMBER: 842914
TABLE OF CONTENTS 1. Construct a three-generational genogram of this family system 2. Draw an ecomap of this family in context Briefly describe 3. (a) the story as probably seen from the perspective of each one of the family members. (b) The story from the vantage point of the family’s position in the family life cycle. 4. Provide a first-order cybernetic description of this case. 5. How would a second-order thinker describe this case? References.
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2. The story as probably seen from the perspective of each of the family members
Mavis: I am not sure what to do about April ...view middle of the document...
3. John: I just want everybody to get along in this family. Mavis and April are very close and I do not want that to change. When Mavis isn’t happy it creates tension between us and April’s had recently gotten out of hand and keeps lying to us. We are concerned that she will become a delinquent. We try our best to give her everything but she still will not listen and we cannot understand why. Both Mavis and I grew up in broken homes and I had an abusive stepfather but we are trying so hard to give April everything that we didn’t have. April needs to understand how much her lying is hurting her mother and I. I understand that teenagers need some freedom and we do allow her some freedom but with that freedom she needs to be responsible and with all the lying she is proving to us that she cannot be trusted. It is very difficult for Mavis to trust someone, especially after being lied to. April needs to earn back that trust that we had in her. I love April as my own daughter, I helped raise her from a baby and I want to be a good father to her but I am not sure she knows how much I care about her because I never had a loving father to care about me and teach me how to be supportive and kind. I admit I can do better as a husband and a father and my hope is that therapy will help me learn how.
4. April: I don’t understand why I am here because I do not have a problem. My mother exaggerates everything way out of proportion. My father has no influence on my life at all and I do understand her fear of me turning out like him but that is not going to happen. I lied not because I have a lying problem but because I have to because she will not get off my case about going out. I like to spare my mother’s feelings and I would not have to if she allowed me freedom to go out and trust that I will make good choices and if I do not then I will learn from them. All my friends are allowed freedoms that I am not allowed. My mother makes things bigger than they seem, all she wants to do is control my life and deny me from doing anything I want to do. I know she wants what is best for me but she needs to let live my life and if I am going to make mistakes, I will make them and learn from them. I respect John but he is my mother’s husband and not my father and I do not need another person trying to tell me what to do with my life. I know about my mother’s difficult past but because of that difficult life she cannot trust anybody at all. People let her down during her childhood and she thinks everybody now will do the same. She needs to relax and trust people and allow me some freedom so I would not have to lie and she needs to get over thinking that a am going to ruin my life or turn out like my father.
5. The story from the vantage point of the family’s position in the family life cycle.
Both John and Mavis have not successfully transitioned through the stages of the family life cycle in a healthy way. John and Mavis had to be independent from a young age. The...