Good Morning Aunty Eya,Â
Atlast, I am also writing my story after reading from other ladies on your blog. I need to share mine too. I am not writing because I need advise, I am not depressed at all and I won't let my feeble self be. I am writing because I can't trust any of my friends. Can't confide in them, they might betray me. After readingÂ
your blog for this long, I am beginning to feel with you the freedom one feels around a close elder sister.Â
AuntyÂ Eya, my Traditional wedding took place last week Thursday. Last night while looking for spare keys in my husband's brief case, I bumped into an envelopeÂ of lovely pictures he took with his ex at the Ranch just a week to our ...view middle of the document...
When my girlfriend changed for the evening, I felt embarrassed for myself. I was so bent on saving costs, so much so that I didn't realize I actually bought cheap shoes, a cheap bag and cheap jewelry for my special day.Â
He was so happy on the wedding day, made me feel special and all but now I know allnaÂ wash. When you are faithful, and someone begins to make the fool of you, God has a way of revealing things to you. I have never searched that briefcase, nothing would have made me suspect that he still sees the widow he claims is older than him with a child in Secondary School. When I started dating Frank, I saw that he and this woman were close, he explained that there was nothing between them, he said they were just plain friends with nothing attached and went further to ask what on earth makes me think Â he will have something to do with a widow older than him. I never saw her again until this fateful day I see pictures in his briefcase.
The pictures are so revealing. They took turns taking the pics on the green grass of the ranch. They sat together and took, they hugged and took. How can a man planning to wed the next week be so careless as to take such pics and even go ahead to hide them in his briefcase.Â
While I was here busy running up and down to get things set, my dear fiance was having a two day holiday at the Ranch. The pictures taken with the two pair of dresses he travelled with. The recent bruise beside his right ear and the pair of shoe he bought just a day before travelling. Those pictures couldn't have been old ones.
He has never taken me out Â to spend even a weekend in a hotel and have fun. All we do is watch Tv and play games. When we go out, it's just to visit friends and nothing like spending to take me...