If you expect respect, be the first to show it?
To understand this phrase completely we must first define the word respect. Respect, to me, is showing a gesture of appreciation in a good manner towards someone’s beliefs, feelings and religion. Respect is also the way you treat someone when they are with you and how you speak of them when they are not with you. There are several ways in which you may show respect and earn respect, which reflects on, “If you expect respect, be the first to show it”. Some of theses ways are showing self respect, respecting one’s opinions and feelings, and also listening and understanding others.
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You may have instances where someone has a different opinion or believes in something that you don’t believe in, but we must still acknowledge that this is theirs thoughts and beliefs. You must show respect in order to receive respect. We should treat people and their feelings as we expect other to do for us. My mother has always told me, “Do unto others what you would like to be done to you”. With that being said, we all expect respect but forget to properly show others at times. We must be fair towards another person’s opinion. We must always lets others know we value their opinions and be sensitive towards their thoughts and feelings. You should have an opinion, but you should control yourself and know when, where, and how you should voice your opinion.
Respect usually starts at home and is also very important in school when dealing with teacher and student relationships and peer relationships. Respects starts with the simple gestures of listening and understanding. Listening and not interrupting and not humiliating someone by correcting them show respect. To respect someone or something you do not necessarily have to agree with them or it, but you just have to understand that everyone has a different approach to things in life.
In conclusion, the phrase,” If you expect respect, be the first to show it”, comes back to Treat others the ways you want to be treated. You may have an opinion but you don’t necessarily have to always voice that opinion on a regular basis. If you respect yourself chances are, others will show you respect. Earning respect is usually accomplished by showing those around you the respect that they deserve and not judging them for their faults.