What Style Do I Have?
A paper on style. What style's are going on around me? What style do I use? What is my written style? And what is my spoken style? In this English class, the style is the anti-Official Style. The Official Style has become a plague that everyone runs from. While running we develop our own style. In psychology class, or history or geography class, it is usually the Official Style. It's as if the professors say "I have a PhD, so it is necessary that I communicate in a fashion that will accentuate the intelligence that I have acquired from years of studious behavior."
What is my style? My style is a "not trying to be official style" style. It's like starting to ...view middle of the document...
The reason that I can tell my friends more than others who I don't know is because I don't have to worry about what they think of me. They already know me.
I use an intimate style when I'm talking to my wife. I say things to her that I would not say to anyone else, not even my terrific friends, and I can say them in total confidence because I know she will not talk about them with others.
The style that I use with my coworkers is a somewhat guarded style. This style tends to overlap with the guarded style because a lot of my coworkers are my friends, so some may fit in those three categories as well.
When I'm talking with strangers or others that I don't know very well I use a guarded style. I don't disclose too much and I'm a little tense in how I say things. I don't want to come across as an idiot but I don't want to come across as arrogant either.
I preach once a month in a little country church which is the closest I get to speaking in the official style. I want to sound educated, I want them to look at me and say "that boy is going somewhere," so I tend to use bigger words and sentences. In the mean time, the point I try to convey to the congregation is lost. The moment their eyes start to gloss over and they look as if their sleeping with their eyes open, I know I lost 'em. They are a polite...