Wise Judgment Scenario
Teenage girls face social pressure on a continual basis. Many girls are pressured by their boyfriends into having sex before they are ready. But it is important to remember that the decision of having sex is not up to them. The decision to have sex for the first time is not something to rush into. Rushing into a decision like this could leave a girl regretting the experience for the rest of her life. Using wise judgment in this situation is extremely important. There are five components to wise judgment that will aid in the decision making process.
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The method of weighing goals consists of breaking those goals down and noting the advantages and disadvantages of each. The Oregon Medical Center stats, “There are five common ways of dealing with conflict: denial or withdraw, suppression or smoothing over, power or dominance, compromise or negotiation, and integration or collaboration. This component will have the teenager the teenager weighing the advantages and disadvantages of each decision. By choosing to go through with it would mean never being able to get that innocence back. Once it is done, it is done. The outcome of saying no may result in a conflict between her and her boyfriend. But on the other hand, it is uncertain how he will act after they have sex. He may decide to leave since he got what he wanted.
The third component of wise judgment is lifespan contextualism which is “The knowledge about different roles and contexts of life (e.g., family, friends, work, and recreation.) And how these may change over a lifespan.” (Ch.4, pg.94.) Every individual will go through changes in their lifetime, but the important thing to do is to use coping skills to get passed that change. This component would have the teenager realizing that her life could change at any moment. Her boyfriend may leave her, or he could do something causing her to leave him.
The fourth component of wise judgment is...